Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Banned From A Writing Forum

Today I was banned from Absolute Write. Why? Because I posted a critique I received on a query. I didn't name the site, I didn't name the poster. The only way anyone would've known was if they themselves were a member.

The reason for the ban: You can find another forum to bitch about. On top of that, one of the moderators sent me a tweet stating "You can find another forum to bitch about, you've overstayed your welcome." Really? How? I didn't cause drama on the board. Yes, I may have gotten defensive over critiques and that's my fault. But overstayed my welcome because I posted a critique I felt was rude?

They did me a favor, though. After an online research I learned that the site is full of bullies and if you don't fit into their little cliques then you're a target. I tried staying on everyone's good side, but I guess the screenshot was the last straw.


No hard feelings, I'll take my punishment and walk away with my head up. No writer should be forced to deal with such hate. Yes, there are some really helpful people there, but they are taken over by bitter, angry, assholes that just want to argue and put people down.

There are healthier writing communities out there than Absolute Write Water Cooler. Be sure to do your research.



5 comments:

  1. I'm sorry that happened. I hate bullies. Love your take away though: head up, better off without it. Shows your strength. ((fist bump))

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    1. Thank you. I figured taking the high road was the best. I believe in karma

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  2. OMG! i didn't know that kind of stuff happened. SHEESH!

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    1. I should've listened to the warnings that the site was full of bullies before I decided to join

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  3. That (their reaction) is so unprofessional. I'm sorry that happened to you. Bullies flock together...unfortunately.

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